well no progress today,tried to think how to stop moving figures through other figures then changed sf::sprite in to a class(tiles) then changed an array in to a vector and broke the tiles been whole day thinking what i did then i found out ... it was the &  -.- i am an idiot!

Been out all day found time to program a little...(20 min)

Made the figure get highlighted, made a function to move them,
and fixed a bug that didn't get my figure at mouse location(first i wasn't pointing it to the right square latter the mouse was global and i needed it local in the window)
also figured out how to respond to multiple events...

new game i am working on hnefatafl board game, will try to make it lan playable and on one PC

here is what i made soo far draws the board and the figures

Tic Tac Toe Server/client

made it a few months ago but the source is messy because it was not made to be server/client but it works :D

soo here it is http://fliiby.com/folders/315095/tic_tac_toe.html